make better lovers – and insists that far from
wrecking marriages, her flings actually improve her
fellas' relationships.
The 44-year-old business consultant says: "I prefer
them because they've only had one woman to
please for a very long time before they meet me —
and it's much easier to perfect their skill.
"Married men are wonderful — they tell you that
you are beautiful, they take you out for delicious
meals, they give you presents and have lovely
manners, as they are well trained by their wives.
"Because so many of the men I meet hardly get
any sèx from their wives they are so grateful in bed
and they really want to please you. I'm definitely
not looking to split up marriages — I think I actually
enhance them.
"Some of the men I see say their marriages are
much better because they are having sèx with me.
They go home much happier to their wives. One
man stopped seeing me because his sèx life with
his wife improved so much."
Lee started having affairs with married men after
her partner, who was 28 years her senior, became
impotent through illness. He finally died after they
had been together eight years.
She recalls: "I am a very lively and attractive
woman and the lack of sèx was driving me crazy. I
even took up running marathons to try to get rid of
my sèxual energy.
"Then I found an extra-marital website which caters
for married people who want affairs, but not to
destroy their marriages.
"It was ideal — I got all the fun of a date, fabulous
sèx with a very grateful man and none of the
responsibility of a relationship.
"I didn't feel guilty then and I don't feel guilty now.
After my partner died, instead of looking for a new
relationship with a single man, I prefer to date
married men."
Londoner Lee has had affairs with seven married
men since 2010 and says: "I'm currently seeing a
businessman who is in his late 50s, who lives
outside London.
"He's married with children. He doesn't want a
divorce and that is so important to me.
"If a married man I am seeing says he wants a
divorce I run a mile and end it straight away.
"I have no intention of getting caught up in a
divorce. I don't see myself as a husband stealer and
I never feel guilty.
"I am really busy with work and don't have the
time to give to a proper relationship. I see my
married lover twice a month and we really make
the most of those two days. We always meet at a
hotel, usually in central London, and it's primarily
about the sèx.
"We go out for a meal but we both know why we
are there. I get hassle-free, fantastic sèx and I am
wined and dined by men who are lovely to me,
treat me really well and don't make any demands
on me.
"I aim to have a monogamous relationship with a
married man but I always keep my eyes open for
attractive new men joining the site. I will meet
them for lunch to see if they have potential.
"There are so many more women like me around. I
am financially independent, adore sèx and am
looking to have a lot of fun without all the ties of a
full-time relationship.
"The internet has made infidelity so accessible and,
believe me, it's happening a lot. So many people
are joining these websites because it is so easy.
And if you are careful, you won't get caught. The
men I meet aren't sleazy — they are normal men
who aren't getting enough sèx at home and want
to have problem-free, mind-blowing sèxual fun with
an attractive woman like me."
And it seems there are more and more men willing
to fulfil Lee's desires.
Recent research by an extra-marital affairs website
reveals that more than 25 per cent of married men
— as well as more than 18 per cent of married
women — have cheated at least once in the past
year.
And most cheaters now meet their partners via the
web.
With more than a million married men registered
online, Lee is just one of the women happy to meet
their needs.
In fact the alternative — meeting unattached men
— fills Lee with horror. She says: "Single men my
age — in their 40s — are a nightmare. They tend to
have multiple lovers and are very selfish in bed.
They only think of their own gratification, and they
are so rude. If they don't get what they want from
you, they'll just roll over and ring someone else and
get her to come over.
"They have a tremendous amount of baggage.
Often they have been through a hideous divorce
and they have no money.
"They insist on you paying 50/50 for a meal, then
they moan on about their ex-wife and not seeing
their kids. A lot of men my age seem to be having a
mid-life crisis and are very angry.
"I don't want all that hassle — I want fun, problem-
free dates with fantastic sèx. I don't want to listen
to a man my age whingeing on about his ex or
looking over my shoulder to keep his options open.
I like to keep it airy and light, and have a laugh.
Men who go on extra-marital websites are just
looking for great sèx. In my experience, they join
because their wives won't have sèx with them or
indulge their fantasies."
Lee adds that the internet has made cheating very
easy for bored men and says: "If I was married, I'd
keep a very close eye on my husband. It is
incredible how many offers I get online.
"My inbox is bursting with emails from men
wanting to set up a date.
"For example, this weekend, I am having lunch
with a gorgeous new married man, then I am
meeting my long-term married lover for dinner in a
smart restaurant.
"I'm very naughty, I love to surprise my married
lovers. I am taking my latest to a private sèx party
which will be held at a discreet address in London.
These are invite -only parties, held in residential
houses. They are aimed at men looking for
outrageous sèxual fun and women who are
bisèxual or bi-curious.
"I started going to these parties a few years ago
and found them to be the most amazing fun. I love
to take very inexperienced married men, their eyes
are out on stalks.
"You can dress in the most outrageous manner —
I'll wear sèxy lingerie, with a mask with feathers on
it.
"The men become extremely aroused — when we
go back to our hotel, they are animals in bed. When
they first go to the parties they just stare. Then
gradually they get more involved as women start
kissing and touching them.
"It's a very erotic experience. I am an exhibitionist
so I have no problem with being sèxually
aggressive with women at the parties.
"And when my married lovers have been once, they
definitely want to go again."
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